After 90 min: You'll transform conflicts into opportunities for deeper understanding and stronger relationships.
Handle Conflict Gracefully
After 90 min: Resolve disagreements constructively while maintaining relationships and respect
What you need
The 90-Minute Plan
Learn to recognize triggers and pause before reacting. Practice deep breathing and grounding.
Ask why the other person feels the way they do. Listen to understand, not to respond.
Use 'I' statements: 'I felt hurt when...' not 'You always...' Keep focus on impact, not blame.
Identify shared values or goals. Work toward solutions that address both people's concerns.
Role-play 3 conflict scenarios with increasing complexity. Build confidence and skills.
Conflict often arises from unmet needs, not actual disagreement. Ask 'What do you need from me?'
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