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Build genuine professional relationships that create opportunities

Social & CommunicationBeginnerAnywhere
90 minutes
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After 90 min: You'll expand your network with people who respect you and create mutual value.

Effective networking is built on a misunderstood foundation: it's not about meeting as many people as possible — it's about building relationships of genuine mutual value with a small number of the right people. This plan teaches that distinction and everything that follows from it: how to identify who is worth investing relationship effort in, how to create the conditions for genuine connection, and how to maintain relationships over time without it feeling transactional.

The session covers crafting a clear personal narrative (people need to understand what you do and why it's interesting before they can see how to help you), identifying strategic events and communities to attend, asking questions that invite real conversation rather than information exchange, offering value before requesting anything, and following up in a way that references the specific conversation rather than just a generic check-in.

Five genuine relationships genuinely outperform a hundred transactional ones, and not just qualitatively. The referrals, collaborations, and opportunities that come through a network almost exclusively flow through trusted relationships, not broad acquaintance. The people with the most professionally useful networks are rarely the ones with the most contacts — they're the ones who have invested deeply in a smaller number of connections over time. This plan builds the habits that produce that kind of network.

What you need

LinkedIn profileAuthentic curiosityBusiness cards (optional)CalendarWillingness to follow up

The 90-Minute Plan

Craft your story0–15 min

30-second version: who you are, what you do, what you're interested in learning.

Attend strategic events15–35 min

Industry conferences, meetups, alumni events. Where people already gather who share interests.

Ask genuine questions35–55 min

'What brings you here?' and then listen. People like talking about themselves. Follow your curiosity.

Offer value first55–75 min

Compliment someone's work, make an introduction, share a useful resource. No quid pro quo.

Follow up meaningfully75–90 min

Within 48 hours, email with specific reference to conversation. Schedule coffee or send article.

Pro Tip

Quality over quantity; 5 genuine relationships beat 100 transactional ones.

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