After 90 min: Be naturally likable and charismatic in social and professional settings
Master Small Talk
After 90 min: Confidently start and sustain light conversations with strangers in social settings
What you need
The 90-Minute Plan
Learn 15 safe conversation starters: weather, location, events, compliments, shared experiences.
Practice active listening. Ask follow-up questions based on what others share. Show genuine interest.
Understand topics to avoid (politics, religion, money, health issues). Learn smooth transitions.
Attend a low-stakes social event (coffee shop, community gathering). Practice with 5 people.
Note which starters worked. Identify times you felt most confident. Build on that.
People love talking about themselves. Ask 'Tell me more' and let them lead the conversation.
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