Increase Your Charm & Likability

Social & CommunicationBeginnerAnywhere

90 minutes

5 steps

·Beginner

After 90 min: Be naturally likable and charismatic in social and professional settings

What you need

social settingauthentic interest

The 90-Minute Plan

Genuine Interest0–15 min

Develop real curiosity about others. People sense when interest is genuine vs transactional.

Remember Details15–35 min

Listen for names, facts, interests. Reference them later. People feel special when remembered.

Give Compliments Wisely35–55 min

Offer specific, earned compliments. Avoid flattery. Genuine appreciation is magnetic.

Find Common Ground55–75 min

Look for shared interests, experiences, values. Bonding happens around similarity.

Follow-up & Consistency75–90 min

Stay in touch. Show you value the relationship. Consistency builds genuine likability.

Pro Tip

Likability comes from making others feel good about themselves, not from being impressive.

90 min·5 steps

After 90 min: Confidently start and sustain light conversations with strangers in social settings

6,200

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After 90 min: You'll expand your network with people who respect you and create mutual value.

9,100

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After 90 min: You'll be the person others enjoy talking to, remembered positively, and sought out.

9,400

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After 90 min: Deliver a clear, engaging 5-minute presentation without relying on notes

5,800

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